life being single

i read this article way back then and shared it with a friend..one late night while im still online on my yahoo messenger he buzzed me and told me he wants to ask something and then i said what it is? and to my surprised he asked me if he really looks like a playboy?


wwwhhhhaaatttttt??!!!!! at the middle of the night youll ask me that kind of question? what happened? anything wrong? ------ instead of answering his question i just threw more questions... he doesnt have a gf and its been so long since the last time he was on a relationship...in short he is still single like me..


at the end of the conversation i asked him again " are you happy being single?" he keeps on typing and typing and typing but the end of it he couldnt even hit the enter button so that i could read what he had written and after a while he told me he cant even type what he really feel...to my assumption he is not happy being single..thats why i shared this article to him actually im not the one who wrote it i just READ it too and i would like to share it with you guys....



and by the way im SINGLE too (^_^)..hope youll enjoy reading!



para sa mga taong parang gumuguho ang mundo pag single..

ang buhay single..
Bakit ba tuwing may "get2geder"
ang mga tao,mapa-family reunion man orsimpleng barkada gimik,
ang unang tanong sayo ay"May girlfriend ka ba?"

at bago ka pa maka-sagot ay maririnig mo namanang
"Bakett walaaaaaa??!"Hayyy, kelangan ba talagang may bitbit kanggurl samga occasions na ito?

Pano kung wala talaga? Alanganamang maki-usap pa ako samga "close" gal friends kopara mag-panggap na "kami"?!

Di naman ata tama yun, dee-bah?
How I wish na sana mas maintindihan ng mga taona sa mga panahon ngayon ay"accepted" na sa society na MEDYO made-delayang pag-iisang dibdib ng mga kalalakihan..

especially guys like mewho want to get into so many thingsall at the same time.
I also wish that people would understand that
OKAY LANG AKO and the rest ofTHE SAMAHANG MALAMIG ANG PASKO...
Valentines day..Birthday..etc.I mean, we do get lonely once in a while..

naiingit din dun sa may mga LOVELIFE...paminsan-minsan?
kung minsan naman ay nagmumuni sa mgapast kilig moments?
but these lonely momentsdo not and will notmake our "world" stop...I

sipin nyo nalang, na kung wala kaming mga singlefriends nyo,
eh di wala kayong paghihingaan ng sama ng loobtuwing nag-aaway kayo ng boylet or girlet nyo?

wala rin kayong "instant date"kung sakaling nangailangan kayo?...wala rin kayong mahihila sa mall para maghanap ng magandang regalofor your better-half pag xmas...
o kaya pag bday nya?at ang pinaka-mahalaga sa lahat,
wala kayong KAKAMPIif things between you and your labidabsdon't work out.

Marami naman sa aming mga singles ay nakaranas na rin na "ma-in-love"..yun nga lang,
obvious ba??????????it all didn't work out!Pero di naman kami "bitter" o galit sa mundo?

and totoo nga nyan eh mas lumalalim ang kahulugan ng"love"para sa min.When you're all by yourself,there's more time to reflectandthink what you really want in life.

Mas naiisip mo kung ano ba talagaang makakapagbigay ng tunay na ligaya sayo...at mas naiisip mo kung panomatutupad ang lahat ng mga pangarap mo.

And while reflecting,we also get to imagine that we will,one day....
end up with someonewho will share those dreams with us.
Di naman sa nang-iinggit ako pero masaya rin ang buhay naming mga single...

Biruin mo we can go out with anybody,anytime..that is.
We can get into all kinds of things..like go to the gym regularly..
or get into all kinds of sports...or any "Self-enhancement" programs, etc...

Mejo tipid din ang buhay single kasi la naman kaming po-problemahin tuwingValentines day or Christmas?o diba ang saya?Sa palagay ko naman ay lahat tayo aymay karapatang sumaya ke single mano attached ka.

I guess may kanya-kanya lang tayong panahong lumigaya atDiyos lamang ang makapagsasabi...kung kelan nga dadatingand oras na yon.

So, para sa mga kasalukuyang "ATTACHED",I wish you all the luck and happiness.
Should there be any problems,don't forgetthat your SINGLE friendsare always here for you!!!!!


Sa mga "bagong SINGLES" naman,wag nang magmukmok!

Enjoy life....enjoy the single life!!!

There are a lot of things that you will still discover.At tandaan mo,

DI KA NAG-IISA!!!madami-dami tayo..hehehehe : )

At dun naman sa kapwa kong mga SINGLES?I hope that we are one in believing that we long for someoneNOT BECAUSE WE WANT TO BE HAPPY but we long forsomeone becausewe want to share our happiness withthat special personfor the rest of our lives....